How To Constantly Motivate Yourself Even When You Feel Down

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It’s normal for us as humans to feel down sometimes but it’s is not normal to remain in that feeling.

You shouldn’t allow circumstances, situations or challenges determine your mood instead you should be responsible for choosing the mood that you want.

You are responsible for your life and your actions so don’t let anyone or anything control your mood

In this post, I will be showing you how to constantly motivate yourself even when you feel down.

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How To Stop Wasting Your Time

I think one of the easiest things for everyone to do is to waste their time, so in this post we will be discussing how to stop wasting time.

Whenever you procrastinate or you sleep too much or you are just daydreaming then you are wasting your time already. If you don’t know that before then you should get to know it now.

Prioritize your activities

It is really important that you prioritize your activities if you really want to stop wasting time.

You should know the activities that are important, those that are urgent and those that are not important.

If you cannot prioritize your time, you will just be doing whatever comes your way and other people will also include you in their own plan.

Even if you don’t want to prioritize your activities, you should do so to avoid other from including you in their own plan because they feel you do not have your own plan.

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When It’s Time To Start All Over Again

Hey, are you lost and don not know what to do again? Well this might be the best time to start all over again to achieve the desired result you want.

Sometimes you just feel rigid and you don’t want to embrace change. If you do something in a particular way and you don’t get results, if you continue doing the same thing, you will likely not get the desired results you need. So the best option is that you change strategy which might means starting all over again.

I also feel rigid too sometimes and I don’t feel like embracing change but I’ve learnt over time that I need to be a result oriented person and that means I need to embrace change even if it means starting all over again.

First, we will be some reasons why we might need to start all over again.

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Easy Side Hustles You Can Start While Working In Nigeria

One of the best things you can do for yourself while working is starting a side hustle because that business could have grown big before you resign from your job.

Having a side hustle also serves as an extra means of income allowing you to live a life of financial freedom.

I will be showing you some side hustle you can easily start along with your job in Nigeria.

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How To Overcome The Habit Of Procrastination

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You have the ability to overcome any obstacle that may be hindering you from succeeding and one of those obstacles is procrastination.

I will be showing top strategies on how to overcome procrastination.

These are strategies I’ve been able to use to overcome procrastination even though it’s still something I struggle with once in a while.

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Success Is Not Final and Failure Not Fatal (But Courage Counts)

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“Success is not final and failure is not fatal.“ is a quote that I love so much and has had impact on my life. I actually don’t know who said it but it is mostly attributed to Winston Churchill. Whichever way it is an interesting quote that you can memorize.

Let’s break this quote down to see what it means and how it affects our lives.

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How to Add Value to Others Around You

Today, I will be showing you how to add value to others around you. I once heard a story of a man who went for interview and he was asked by the interviewer if he was going to be a liability or an asset to the company, but the man didn’t know the meaning of asset and liability, so he said he was going to be a liability to the company which means he will not add value to the organization if employed.

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How to Be Successful In Life At A Young Age (Must Read!)

Success means different things to different people, but successful people have some things in common which they all do. I will be showing you some tips on how you can be successful in life at a young age using these common tips that successful people use.


You should also know that success is not a day work, it is a result of several efforts you’ve been putting into work.


Well, I have good news for you and the good news is that you can succeed if you want to succeed. So, it’s left to you to make the decision.


Now, let me share some tips that successful people use


1. Add value to others

Adding value to others simply means helping them to do task they cannot or do not wish to do. For instance people want to eat every day and they might not have a farm to produce food, if you are supplying them food that means you are adding value to them.

Just make up your mind to add value to others every day no matter what it takes because that’s the difference between someone who is successful and someone who is not successful. Successful people look for opportunity to add value to others while those who fail do not add value, but they only want to make the money.



2. Discipline

Discipline means training yourself to do what you ought to irrespective of the situation you find yourself in. People that do things whenever it seems convenient for them are not disciplined. Disciplined people stick to their plans at all time, they don’t care if rain is falling or they are not in the mood to work, they just do their work.

You should discipline yourself even though it isn’t easy, you should wake up early, you should keep to time, and you should stick to your plan. You also discipline yourself in other areas of life.



3. Time management

Time management is important to success because time is money. If you are wasting your time on unnecessary activities then you are as well wasting money. Those who manage their time well are very likely to succeed in life.

Most people are usually preoccupied with lots of activities and that is the reason they achieve less result. In a situation like this you need to be able to manage your time by focusing on important activities and leaving out those that are not important.



4. Learn a skill you can use to help others

In the world that we are in today, everybody needs to learn a skill and the one they learn is one that will be beneficial to others.

Learning a skill takes time and I understand that’s why a lot of people don’t want to learn a skill. Most people do not want to invest their time in something that does not generate money immediately.

Do not focus on the time it takes to acquire a skill, instead you should dedicate yourself to acquiring a skill and at the end of the day you will be on your way to being successful.



5. Have the right attitude

Life can easily break you down if you do not have the right attitude, if you are the type that gives up easily and complain a lot that means you have a wrong attitude towards life.

A lot of things may be going through your mind because of what has happened to you in the past, but you shouldn’t let that affect the way you will act now and in the future. All you need to do is to learn from your mistakes, make a better decision next time and stay positive at all times.



6. Read books

One of the secrets of most successful people is that they read regularly. The reason they read regularly is to keep themselves update about the latest happenings around the world which can help them make wise decisions.

Some people do not like reading and no matter how much they try, they find it hard to read. If you are in a situation like this then you don’t have much to worry about because you can now download audio books and even educational videos for learning purposes.


Some people do not like reading and no matter how much they try, they find it hard to read. If you are in a situation like this then you don’t have much to worry about because you can now download audio books and even educational videos for learning purposes.



7. Be educated

Being educated is not just about going to school and getting a certificate but it is about having and in-depth knowledge about subjects that are important to you. It is good that you go to school, but you also need to educate yourself personally because there are some things which you cannot be taught in school.

Don’t be caught up with the thinking that education is all about the certificate you get, your education has to do with the knowledge you’ve been able to acquire over a period and how you can apply it.



8. Make sacrifices

I know that this may sound funny but it is the bitter truth. You need to sacrifice unimportant goals for important ones if you want to be successful in life. Don’t just live your life for today; you need to plan for tomorrow as well.

You might be tempted to always live your life for pleasure, I know pleasure is good, but when it is too much it is bad because it can hinder you from achieving your success.

Sometimes you should just do those activities that are painful because the rule is no pain, no gain.

There is what is called delayed gratification which means delaying the pleasures you are meant to have now to a later period because you have important activities that are more beneficial to focus on.



9. Market yourself

The truth is that you might be the best at what you do but if people do not know about what you do then they won’t do business with you. So, it is not just enough to be skillful but you also need to market yourself so that others can know how you can be of help you them.

Let people know you for what you do, and they will patronize you, but if they do not know what you do, they won’t patronize you.



10. Be consistent at what you do

The rate of your consistency matters a lot because one poor performance can affect all your good works negatively. For you to be successful in life you need to add value to others and you need to do it consistently.

It’s not easy to be at your best all the time, but you just need to try to be at your best all the time. You should always do your best every time even when you don’t feel like doing your best.



11. Dream big

It is important for you to dream big so that you can achieve big goals. If your dreams are small, so also will your result be small. Those that achieve big goals achieved them because they saw it already, so if you also want to achieve big success, you need to dream big.

We have been taught to be set realistic and achievable goals, I know that’s right but sometimes you need to forget about all these rules and just dream big.

You should always have a picture of what you want to achieve in your mind.



12. Make an effort

Most people that succeeded in life succeeded because they made an attempt while most of those that failed didn’t make an attempt. If you do not make an effort, you will never know how good you are at doing something.

The reason why most people are where they are today is because they never made an attempt or maybe they made an attempt once, and they failed.

In life, you just have to keep on trying till you achieve your goals. It takes someone with a strong character to try again after failing and that’s how you should be. Weak people are too timid to make an attempt again after failure.



13. Get a mentor

Having a mentor makes your journey to success faster and easier because a mentor will help you avoid some mistakes you would normally have made if you were working with your idea only. You will definitely have successful people that you know and can approach to become your mentor.

You might not like the idea of having a mentor because you are an introvert and you try to figure things out yourself, that’s not bad but you might make a lot of mistakes before you finally find the right formula for success.



14. Follow instructions

One of the key to succeeding in life is following instructions even when it doesn’t feel convenient. Some people don’t just know how to follow instructions because they always want to do what comes to their mind thereby pleasing themselves.

If you have a success training program that you are working with, you should follow all the instructions given in the training instead of following the training half-way through because that’s what a lot of people do, and they don’t achieve success.



15. Integrity

Integrity is important to your success because most people want to do business with someone who has integrity. Nobody wants to deal with a dishonest person.

We are in a world where being corny seems to be the order of the day, but you can make a decision not to join them and stick to being a person of integrity and this will make you stand out from others.

Reasons Why Many Young People Do Not Succeed Early In Life

You will notice that some people do not succeed early in life even though they have the potentials to do so. In this post we will be discussing about some reasons why many young people do not succeed early in life.


Sometimes people get to a point in life where they get frustrated about life because they are not succeeding the way they ought to or they are not meeting up to their own expectations.


When people find themselves in situations like this, they allow it weight them down and this can affect them for a long time in life.


The thing about life is that when life knocks you down, you just need to get back up and stay focused on achieving dreams.


Life will always throw punches at you but it is your response that determines the result you get. When life throws you a punch and you respond by going into a sleep mode thereby developing negative habits, the result you will get is definitely a negative one.


But when life throws you a punch and you respond positively by shaking it off and becoming more proactive, then the result you will get is definitely a positive one.


Let us look at some negative habits young people exhibit when they face challenges in life. These are the habits that hinders many young people from succeeding early in life.


Read this post till the end to find out some of these habits that hinder young people from succeeding early in life.

Some reasons why young people do not succeed early in life

1. Procrastination

Procrastination will definitely be number one on my list. Procrastination is a very sweet thing to do and at the same time it affects your future negatively big time.

How do you feel when you sleep and the alarm wakes you in the morning but you decide to extend it by 10 minutes and you sleep off and the alarm beeps again and you extend it by another 10 minutes to sleep before you finally wake up.

I’m sure you will enjoy the extra sleep you had more than your regular sleep but the truth is that the extra sleep you are getting could cost you your future or affect your future negatively.

That is how procrastination works, you enjoy wasting your time doing unimportant things instead of doing the things you ought to do now.

In case you are caught in the web of procrastination, I wrote a post on how to overcome procrastination and I think you should read it because it will sure help you overcome procrastination in life.

2. Lack of vision

One of the reasons why many young people do not succeed early in life is because they do not even know what they want. Some people are still confused about life even at age 30.

If you are living your life to please others or you find yourself always doing what other people want you to o, then it shows that you don not have vision in life.

When you do not have vision or plan for your life, other people will find it easy to include you into their plans thereby using you to achieve their own success.

Make sure you have a vision of what you want out of life and maintain a win-win relationship with people because that way, you will help others succeed and they will also help you succeed in life too.  In life, we are all interdependent on each other and we help each other achieve our dreams.

3. Lack of knowledge

Being successful in life is not a matter of age or experience. For instance, you can get a 40-year-old person and a 20-year-old person to work as your social media manager. The truth is that it is very possible for the 20-year-old guy to perform better than the 40-year-old guy if he has more knowledge in that field.

It is also possible for the 40-year-old guy to perform better than the 20-year-old guy if he has more knowledge about the work.

This goes to show you that you can succeed early in life if you get the right knowledge that you need to succeed.

So, you can see why it is good to continually get knowledge in life.
The world is ever changing and for you to be relevant in life, you need to continually update yourself by getting more knowledge.

4. Lack of focus

There are some sets of people that know what they want to achieve in life but their issue is that they cannot stay focused on achieving their goals instead they focus on a lot of activities that are irrelevant.

You will see people like this always complaining that they are busy but they do not have results to show for being busy.

For you to succeed in life, you should develop the habit of focusing on important things that will affect your life positively.

5. Love for pleasure

Do not spending all your time seeking pleasure because I can assure you that what you will get at the end of it all is failure.

Things that can give you pleasure includes watching movies, playing games, eating junks, drinking alcohol, listening to music, going to parties, watch football etc.

Do you know that the people that create this pleasure for you to experience put a lot of hard work into it? For instance, those playing football go for practice during the week before coming to play on the field and same thing applies to every entertainer, they practice before coming out to entertain you and that is hard work.

If those entertaining you work hard, then why shouldn’t you work hard also. You can’t live your life seeking pleasure and you will expect success. Instead you should live your live seeking how to add value to others by serving and helping them, therein lies true success.

Conclusion

I have discussed about how to be successful at a young age and also listed some reasons why many you people do not achieve success early in life. I’m sure that as you were reading some other reasons might cross your mind and I would like you to share it in the comment box below.

Do not just read this post without practicing some tips in here and you should also be kind enough to share this post among your friends and family so that they can also learn.

Cheers to more success in life

Be a good friend, share the success.

7 Obstacles That Can Stop You From Achieving Your Goals

You might have noticed that sometimes you set goals and don’t achieve them, but the truth is that you are not always happy when that happens. There are obstacles that you need to overcome so as to achieve your goals, so let’s look at 7 obstacles that can stop you from achieving your goals.

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7 Secrets of Success That No One Told You About

There are secrets in life that can help you become successful and when you know these secrets they will also help you to become successful. Now, let’s discuss about the 7 secrets of success that no one told you about.

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