I will be discussing on how to stop feeling incompetent and worthless, I’m discussing this because a lot of people have the potential to be successful in life but they don’t give it a try because they feel they are incompetent.
Feeling incompetent and worthless is mostly caused by you believing other people’s opinion about you. You should not let other peoples opinion define who you are instead, you should have a picture of who you want to be and continually work towards it.
You should know that you are not worthless but you have hidden potentials in you which you need to discover. The same thing happens to gold and diamond, they look worthless initially but when they are refined, they become very valuable.
Nobody has the right to make you feel you are worthless because you are special and unique in your own way. You have the potential to be the version of yourself.
One question I hear a lot of times is what can make people happy. Most people will tell you that success is the key to happiness but is success the key to happiness?
The truth is happiness does not always come from success. Sometimes, it is just the state of your heart. Someone might be successful and might still not be happy and someone might not be successful and still be happy.
So, being successful is not a guarantee that you will be happy but being successful can help you to be happy.
Successful people are always happy most times because they like the result they are getting out of life while most people who fail are always sad.
For instance, if two teams are playing the game of soccer, you will notice that the winning side are always happy and shouting while the losing side are always sad and quiet.
Do you believe that failure can be a stepping stone to your success? well, the truth is failure can actually be a stepping stone to your success. Failure can also birth success and that is why failure is also called the mother of success.
Before succeeding in life, you would have definitely failed before but you succeeded because you kept on trying and a good example is you being able to walk.
For you to be able to walk, you would have fallen down a lot of times but you kept on walking and that was why you can walk today.
As we grow up, we develop so much fear that it makes afraid of trying again whenever we fail. That is why you see some people start a business with a good idea but once they face a little setback, they will give up on their dreams.
In life, there is a spiritual aspect to everything and the same thing applies to success also. There are spiritual laws of success which if followed attracts success to you. That is the real law of attraction.
Everything that you can see in the physical was first of all birthed in the spiritual.
Which is why God had to speak before light could come into the world and also by His words other creations were formed.
As you can see that God is the spiritual being and He has the power to create all things into the physical state.
Sometimes life throws at us things we do not expect. For instance, it could be some losing his job, some getting heartbreak from a relationship, failing in business or even have health challenges. So we will be looking at how to receive healing when life hurts you.
Emotional pains don’t just leave immediately, they take a while before going and for some people the period might be so long.
But you can actually do your best to manage the pain and make it work for your own good. That’s what we will be discussing in this post.
It is important we discuss this because a lot of people carry life’s hurt for every long period without them knowing and this affects the way they respond to life in general.
For instance someone who has been heartbroken before might find it hard to trust again.
Let us look at some steps on how we can get healing while we are hurt.
There are some things we need to do daily to live a successful life. Habits are not things that can be formed in a day, they are thing that are formed or developed over some period of time because some actions are being repeated.
As humans we develop both good and bad habit but most times it is easier to develop bad habit because they are easy actions we can easily repeat without adding much value to us. Watching TV all day can be a bad habit, being on social media all day can be a bad habit and these habits are easy to develop.
Reading can be a good habit, exercising can be a good habit but such habits are not easy to develop. It takes a a lot of discipline and diligence to develop these good habits.
In this post, I will be showing you some good habits that can help you succeed in life.